“Sadness gives depth. Happiness gives height. Sadness gives roots. Happiness gives branches. Happiness is like a tree going into the sky, and sadness is like the roots going down into the womb of the earth. Both are needed, and the higher a tree goes, the deeper it goes, simultaneously. The bigger the tree, the bigger will be its roots. In fact, it is always in proportion. That's its balance."
Most of the circumstances,we feel frustrated that we dont get the happiness,opportunities,environment etc that others enjoy and we are neglected by universe.
We get what we had given out without any partiality.
Everybody has a different life story and purpose.
In your story,embrace the sadness,develop and learn..there you will find the balance.
Love and light to all!!!